Saying Yes to Your YES is an act of self-love
A post Valentine's Day reminder for you 🤍
Good morning, my beautiful community,
It’s been a while since I’ve written to you all here. I have been practicing a LOT of self-love by taking more time for myself as I continue to move through new phases of grief and adapting to my new life with Bailey (my older dog) as we hold the love in our hearts for my younger dog Johnny who passed at Christmas. It takes time to find our footing again after a life-altering event, and it’s really important to not rush the process. So if you’re going through a hard time right now, remember to soften and give yourself the time needed to let life realign for you.
Today, I want to inspire you to really practice self-love. When life gets hard or confusing, the best thing you can do is slow down to hear your intuition so that it can guide you to what you need most in the moment.
Saying Yes to Your YES is an act of self-love 🤍.
This quote from my book “Say Yes to Your YES: How to Trust Your Gut and Take the Leap” is one of my favourites because it reminds us to prioritize our needs and desires.
It is SO easy to tell ourselves “Who am I to…”
Take the nap
Stop to cry for an hour
Say no to the invitation
Say yes to this exciting opportunity
Set boundaries
Change jobs
Leave the relationship
Take the dream trip
And so on…
When we practice self-love, we can then give to others from a full cup rather than giving out of obligation and from a place of resentment. My red flag that tells me that I’m not honouring my YESes enough is when I become passive-aggressive. This is my version of imbalance. What’s yours? Anger? Sadness? Impatience? Notice and acknowledge when these emotions come up without judgment. It is your cue to turn all that love back to yourself.
So what is the next thing you want to Say Yes to in your life/work? Close your eyes, take a few breaths and listen to what you feel in your gut. Trust that initial feeling and honour that YES! That is your truth.
If you need support in doing this, I’m hosting another free 11-Day Say Yes to Your Next YES challenge on April 11th. Our last one in January was mind-blowing. The transformation that happened in those 11 days for the participants was so beautiful to witness! You can read some transformational stories here and register to join us.
If you know already that you want to commit to this journey of Saying Yes to Your YES to upgrade your life, you can skip a step and come right into The Yes Collective with us. Together, we’re designing our dream lives and work/businesses, taking big, beautiful leaps and learning to courageously trust that inner wisdom that is guiding us every day.
I have exclusive Valentine’s goodies for anyone who joins by Sunday, February 16th. If you do, you get:
Founding Members price (for life, as long as you stay a member) of $79 instead of $97
3 x 30-minute private coaching sessions with me
Complimentary access to my online course "Unleash Your Inner Wisdom: A 12-week journey to Intuitive Mastery" (value of $79 usd)
A digital card reading for Feb - You send me a question privately in our Members area and I will pull 2-3 Intuitive cards for you and send you a recorded video reading back.
Digital and audio copy of my book Say Yes to Your YES: How to Trust Your Gut and Take the Leap
Total value of $350 usd for $79 by joining us in The Yes Collective by February 15th!
Whatever you decide, I hope you will commit to Saying Yes to Your YES as a beautiful act of self-love. You are worthy of this!
Sending so much love on this Valentine’s Day Weekend. May you give and receive love from everyone and every pet that is important to you. I’m spending this weekend with the loves of my life, my nephews Victor and Noah and my girl Bailey.
Jenn xo